Friendship has a prodigious value in the meaning of life. It is one of the richest treasures you can ever have. Friendship helps you overcome challenges and difficult times in your life, through talking, listening and just by knowing you have a friend that will be there when in need facilitates all the pain and sorrows anyone can ever face. For me friends are like accessories. There are good ones, bad ones, pretty ones, ugly ones, real ones, fake ones, big ones, small ones, cheap ones, awesome ones, ones that break apart, and ones that last forever. Friends come into your life through many ways, sometimes you find them sometimes they find you, but in the end they just happen to fall upon your path.
The most important thing about friendship is that it adds meaning and value to our lives, some people might belittle it and proclaim it unnecessary and say it has no survival value; but they are dead wrong in fact it is one of those things that give value to survival.
There are innumerable qualities that make a true friend last forever, but to me HONESTY is the most important quality to look for in a friend. If you have honesty it will bring many other great qualities along with it. Honesty is the foundation and the key of a good friendship. Without honesty the friendship would fall apart. But that’s not only it. TRUST, is another very important quality that I look for in a friend. In friendship you should be able to trust one other, weather it comes to keeping secrets or promises. When your world come crashing down, when you fall and hit the ground, all you need is somebody to lean on and talk with about anything. You should be able to trust your friends and depend on them to be forever next to you just the way you are. Also part of qualities of a good friend is having someone who is fun, amiable, interesting, attentive, supportive, is a giver more than a taker, accepts you for you and is always here in good and bad to make you rise higher than the moon and stars.
Also a friend with good qualities will know you well and will care about you, and everything they’re doing is done by love and blessings. When you are not strong they’ll help you carry on even if it means sitting with you in the hospital for days and nights; be with you while you grieve, be available at a moments notice of crisis, come out to help in the middle of the night, stand up for you in front of the whole world, lend a hand when there is work to be done, be loyal to you, make you laugh when you are sad. And the best part is not only that they have the words to turn that frown upside down but they also have the arms to give hugs, ears to listen to whatever you want to talk about even if it’s the same old drama all over again, but also they have the heart that is always aching to see you smile again.
I believe that my friends make me who I am, and I know that despite our fights, discords, and misunderstandings they are one of the best things that’s ever been mine. You can travel the world and still you will never find big hearts and good qualities like theirs. They mean the world to me. They make me laugh, make me cry and there even comes a time when I want to punch one by one in the face. You might think I’m joking but truly great friends that will always be by your side are the ones that help you eat the whole jar of icing or ice-cream because your “one true love” dumped you or you just got heartbroken. My friends are the people that make me smile every day just by thinking of them and they are not one in a million, THEY ARE ONCE A LIFETIME 
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